Sunday, 11 September 2016

一间直接侮辱我的餐馆,让我很痛心!

昨天很兴奋的带了几位朋友去支持我曾经介绍过的餐馆。这间餐馆也有参与我的Fan Club Card,好让我那些好朋友去享有他们给的优惠。
每间参与我的Fan Club Card 都会放我的Poster. 这是因为之前很多好友到了餐馆看不到任何关于我的Fan Club Card的资料有一点担心能不能用? 有些甚至不敢进去。之后他们反映给我,叫我放一些资料在那些有参与的餐馆。
起初我不想放Posters因为我觉得很尴尬,在加上我每次都会带朋友去吃,我会觉得很不好意思。不过越来越多的朋友一直向我提议。最后我觉得应该让我的朋友用的时候很安心,很开心。所以决定放Poster让他们知道这间餐馆是可以使用我的Fan Club Card.
昨天我发现这间餐馆把我的poster放在厕所旁边。我真的很心痛, 我觉得如果他们不想放我的Poster可以直接跟我讲,不需要这样侮辱人家,我觉得做人应该懂得尊重别人,人家一定会更加尊重你。
拿了我的Fan Club Card的朋友都知道我是没有任何收费,因为我觉得要给就Steady的给, 不要做到很小气。
所有参与的餐馆都知道我是没有跟它们要求任何费用,因为我是一心一意想介绍好吃的餐馆给我的好朋友。
我很心痛是。。。每一张A2 Size Poster 大概需要$22, 我真的不介意出这个钱,因为我觉得要就不做, 要做就要让我的好朋友去的时候安心和开开心心。我真的不想让他们去到那里一直担心我的Fan Club Card可以用吗??
我这么用心的去做, 为什么你们要这样糟蹋我的一片用心?如果这间餐馆这么不想优惠给我的好朋友,可以不要参与,我觉得OK的,因为这是你们的选择。我会尊重你们的决定,竟然答应给了,就大家把它做好。他们还很大声的告诉我已经放在一个很容易让我的朋友看得到的地方。原来是放在厕所旁边。
我很想问大家的意见? 是不是我太小气了? 还是他们真的不懂怎么样尊重一位真心想帮他们介绍他们的食物给大家的一位朋友呢?
I brought my friends to this restaurant yesterday night which I have recommended previously in my blog. Knowing that this restaurant has participated in my Fan Club Card, I wanted them to enjoy this privilege.
All of the restaurants that have participated in my Fan Club Card will paste up my poster. This is because some of my friends are worried on whether they can use my card or not in the restaurant as they don't see any related information of it. Some even dare not to step in. They then suggested that I should put up posters as an assurance.
At first I did not want to go with this idea because it's quite awkward actually, moreover I always bring my friends to these restaurants, but when the request was more I decided to proceed so that they won't have any worry or doubts when using my Fan Club Card.
Yesterday I saw this restaurant pasted my  poster near the toilet, I felt very heartache and disappointed. If they don't wish to put my poster they should tell me directly and not do such an act to humiliate my dignity. You have to respect people first before asking people to respect you. I believe this is the most basic courtesy that we should all have between two parties.
Friends who have my Fan Club Card would know that it is a complimentary card. I will not do despicable acts and cause troubles for the users. Participating restaurants also know that I did not request for any fees as well because my objective is to recommend good food places in Singapore.
It's very hurting because every A2 size poster costs around $22 but it's not just about the price but the respect for this poster. I believe if you want to do, do it right if not might as well don't do it. I really do not want people to to use this Fan Card Club with doubts.
I have put in so much effort yet they don't appreciate and even humiliate my dignity. If this restaurant doesn't want to give any privilege to my friends they need not be involved in this. I really don't think it's a  problem because this is their choice. I will respect their decision, but when you have decided to commit and told me confidently that you have pasted somewhere obvious to spot and in the end I found out its pasted near the toilet? Where is the respect?
I would like to seek everyone's opinion if I am too petty? Or they really do not know how to respect a friend who sincerely wants to recommend good food?

35 comments:

  1. I think if they put inside the restaurant, fan card user might have a chance to see it..

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  2. honestly, I don't want my picture/poster some where near toilet!

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  3. Why would someone do that?? Are their restaurant out of wall/space??

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  4. I am glad it isn't my poster. If it does, I really want explanation.

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  5. We can't understand people, but we can understand the logic and respect right?

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  6. Ashley I will support you. We appreciate your efforts and time to recommend good food to us.

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  7. Some restaurants really selfish and stupid. You are helping them to get business. They should know how to appreciate.

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  8. Ashley tell me which restaurant is that? We will not go there anymore.

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  9. We support you. You have more than 30 restaurants. Just let us know which is good. We will go there to support

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  10. I admired your personality. You are so nice to help them and also recommend good food to us. I will support you forever.

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  11. Please let me know which restaurant? We will not patronised them anymore

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  12. Please don't give up. We need your recommendation. I have been following you for so many years.

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  13. Thank you for your Fan Club Card. I have tried many restaurants you have recommended. Is really nice. Just terminate those selfish and stupid restaurants which don't know how to appreciate your efforts.

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  14. Is very important to have poster there. We are so worried that the waitress do not know about it. With the poster I'm so confident.

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    1. Agree!! To put poster is a must. We can use it peacefully!

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    2. The restaurant should think the proper place before put the poster! This is how people who's work with their heart...

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    3. Not everyone have this sense..unfortunately!

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    4. Not everyone have this sense..unfortunately!

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  15. If those restaurants are not supportive please terminate the relationship with them. We support you.

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  16. To put poster is a must. We can use it peacefully...

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  17. Stupid restaurant. Don't be so stupid and brainless lah. Even a simple poster also don't know where to put??

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  18. I strongly agreed to terminate the relationship. We support you Ashley

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  19. Very disappointed, as a fan card user I support you Ashley!

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  20. if you put the poster inside the restaurant, people will notice and confidence use the card ma...!

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  21. So far every weekend I prefer go to restaurant that have your fan card discount, I have this advantages WHY NOT..?

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  22. Don't give up Ashley, we all support you!!

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  23. For me, this is serious. I won't let anyone treat me like that..

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  24. Ashley, you are strong, dedication and hard working. I followed you for many years. This people attitude and action just piece of peanut!

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  25. I already use the fan card. I definitely will FIND is there are the Ashley fan card poster first inside the restaurant before I find the table to sit! See, who going to search entire restaurant until toilet to confirmed is there are have fan card discount??

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  26. Some people don't know how to value thing. If that happened to me, I will take down the poster and give it to another restaurant that appreciated it.

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  27. Let it go Ashley. Let go this kind of people isn't losing, it is a GAIN!

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  28. Thanks you for sharing the best restaurant Ashley, we will always support you!

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  29. For many years follow Ashley blog, I believed very disappointed. He so passionate and with "full heart" but people treat him like this.

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  30. These people don't understand logic and huge effort.. They are no sense at all!

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